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I have usually had very little social influence in my own life and in things in the world. I just take part in some things in basic common sense like ways, and have lots of wisdom of life and some high skills. But many people in my social or wider environment seem to have overly much social influence on the world and on people, pets, things etc in their social envuronment. So it seems that some, even many of them mark themselves as if having the right to influence things quite as much or over the influencues of the other major factors referred to, as if those were ordinary people with similar qualities but less likable, but instead those seem to be rationality, laws, values, traditional ways, even traditional basic picture of tge world overrun by occult means. And truth, honesty, good quality common sense, ordinary basic ways of communicating etc get overrun, and the result is like apocalypse or some criminals taking over by occult means.
So usually it has been a question of whether wisdom and factors that are often ok to take into account that way and that much, are taken into account in a wise, fair, honest enough, ok way. Or are wisdom, basic rights, safety precautions against lies & criminals & things in the society used to wrong purpises & etc, are such safety precautions followed. Or is wisdom overrun by social eye, social taking sides, only certain terms or the like checked, lies, acting, long time false ways, large groups mostly not respecting wisdom or not respecting moral, or by occult means, etc.
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The problem maybe is rationality etc being kept up by many, but it seeming to be impirtant where the individual is unusually ratilnal, wishing fairly well in the world, wise, intellugent and with lots of wisdom of life. So if even such an individual is lverrun, it seems to prevent lots of possibilities of guiding things in the world by common sense. And so some mark "rationality" there, and so lying or acting kind of people and unwise guessibg kind of adventurers tend to try to go to such places or spiritually travel there, to get some marking that they are rationality etc itself, and so dominate over people using rational grounds, civiliced wisdom, other professions, etc - as if they were a force bringing wisdom and wisdom of life to the society, instead of being luars suppirting evil or unwise choices of a skill level that makes obe muserable about the possibilitues of life in this world.
https://learntalents2.blogspot.com/2024/05/continued-at-learntalents3blogspotcom.html where see the picture and read the text before the picture of my books from these blogs, which typically consist of separate similarly short momentarily interesting subjects about wisdom of life, as the blog post on the link to my Finnish blog. Like someone from Vantaa would have said "yes, those are interesting, but there they are true!". So mostly I have very little own room to live in, to decide fully my own life etc, some unfair socially convinsing sounding claims destroying much of my life, especially by their side effects or by their clearly evil and unfair, very irresponsible and intentionally misleading long term or large scale intentions, and I guess there are lots of misunderstandings,
especially about the trustworthiness of each person and about how one and only possibly interesting point or area of life for me some thoughts of mine handle, and so I tend to lose the possibility to decide my profession, hobbies, use of time, amoubt of concentration, ways of doing, ways of living, what kind of support from whom I need or do not need and how much, in which ways, from whom it is ok to demand such, is it ok to "put things right" by occult means or crimes if I am not like others imagined that I should look like, be, want, feel, be able to bear, suit to, be happy in, need, be able to do, in which ways, etc.
I copy some of the texts on the links:
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This blog continues, or maybe continues, at .
But the book series appears ready and even too long, so I do not know if it makes any sense to suppose readers having read it, and referring to my old texts just blurs my mind, so that task would be better left for some people collecting texts in a certain subject that interests many and them too.
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Continuing seemed impossible for me, since there came a much too big demand for subjects which I cannot carry. But you can start your own blog for free at www.blogger.com and maybe there already is some old blog trial of yours, but one can make tens of blogs for free, maybe a hundred. So in most computers' internet browsers there exists a copy+paste possibility, so you can quote from my blogs, if needed, but I cannot carry the feedback, reputation, etc from such. The subject in the air today was "Marriage school in the internet", starting from a quotation from my blog musiikkipaivakirja.blogspot.com today.
31st of May 2024 ( I am not a vegetarian. Neither do I need or want big amounts of meat. The ordinary recommended Finnish foods have been good for me. Sometimes I need more sallad or a lighter diet. And sometimes I eat more colder season kinds of foods i.e. not so light just then. I do not need any special diet, but it is good to balance the diet back to recommended if some part was too much of some type of foods. Sometimes I feel social life going better if I eat sugary desserts etc, or more baked? kind of foods or larger amounts than what I naturally need - I guess because I have more wisdom of life according to feelings than what many others have. )
I also do not drink alcohol. I feel that if there isn't a party like feeling without alcohol or drugs, there is some life skill lacking in tge arrangements. I have always thought that if people tend to like some having a little bit of wine sometimes, in that way freer gesture language, more emotional ways of talking, more insightful language and way of talking, etc are somehow naturally accepted and preferred, so one can choose such wisdom of life without alcohol, and then the good sides will be always present when needed and the insight one can use to choose better profession etc, better life at large in the long run.
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For the former subject, there is a video called Olympic workout (on the playlist of the book series Skills of Christmas gnomes), or something like that, about learning some of athletes view to sports and maybe if enthusiastic about sports, also a somewhat athletes body like body form.
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K25. 4th of March 2022 I found a video of pictures of ancient Greek athletes which taught different types of humans ( like the characteristic atmispheres of the people in the painted ancient pictures ) ways of using sttention, moving & the body so that the picture of the body and the way of moving are more complex and much more like athletes in the Olympics. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UF9CRW_AguA
I just watched the beginning and then was left pondering.
The Chinese in the pictures about shadow boxing would in addition need to copy some typical European style, to find the athletes body & way of moving. "
An Estonian song about the Midsummer celebration with children running around, but in Finnish.
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1st of June 2024 A year ago I fell ill in the beginnkng of June, it was for occukt reasons and lasted the whole summer. This year I have been afraid of a similar happening quite in the beginning of June. I havr for over three years mostly written this Christmas gnome / elf skills text on my mobile phone, and haven't manage to do anything much in addition. Today morning when I touched my mobile phone, it did not feel like the same phone but instead like a similar that had been used by other people. The major user/users had been some quite old man who had been active like in quite ordinary working life, but who had or some other major user had used the mobile phone to something which appeared black, harmful, evil, bringing bad luck just where the continuaty of my own texts and of my own life has been in writing positive kind of safeguarding advices about Christmas gnome like life. Also the ways of being active were too accident borne or too much ending in fight tp suit the everyday life of most or of me. So it seems that I ought not continue writing this blog, at least not for the time being.
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If you think you could write a better text from some subject(s) of my texts, maybe that is why your internet search? brought you to my blog, since my quite theoretical point of view is only only one part of what people want to hear about Christmas gnomes, life skills, etc, and so other (new?) writers who are preferred by some large group are wanted and needed as journalists etc, while my texts are often just one original, kind of academical, source of info in these subjects. Especially each country, climate, cultural domain, profession, etc would need their own writers. Mine texts are on a too general level and not from the point of view of each area etc, and not literally so good quality, i guess. But one of my strenghts is wishing well in the world and aiming at being fair.
The traditional Finnish speaking Finnish culture sees natyrality meaning natural in the biological sense of the word. So it is wise for life and good for living kn the world. It also has space for things in the human nature but only in ways that are wise in the world. Naturaluty often means freedom but kn harmony with the good of the world, i.e. only wisely and that means jyst in good quality ways wisely.
The problems in Finland often seem to be caused by completely erraneous views on naturality abroad, from where some try to get things well, and in Finland that means naturality, freedom and good quality objective thinking. None of those ought to be in any way criminal or unwise, not against beautiful values or good quality. If there seems to be a need for something termed criminal, one should seek good quality answers of what is the place of such things when livkng in wise healthy kibd of ways, and so one can find arrangements of the word where the rules are wise enough to alliw wisdom of life, be fair for all, and wise in good quality ways, wishing well for the world, now and in the future.
But the book series appears ready and even too long, so I do not know if it makes any sense to suppose readers having read it, and referring to my old texts just blurs my mind, so that task would be better left for some people collecting texts in a certain subject that interests many and them too.
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Continuing seemed impossible for me, since there came a much too big demand for subjects which I cannot carry. But you can start your own blog for free at www.blogger.com and maybe there already is some old blog trial of yours, but one can make tens of blogs for free, maybe a hundred. So in most computers' internet browsers there exists a copy+paste possibility, so you can quote from my blogs, if needed, but I cannot carry the feedback, reputation, etc from such. The subject in the air today was "Marriage school in the internet", starting from a quotation from my blog musiikkipaivakirja.blogspot.com today.
This blog continues from LearnTalents2.BlogSpot.com at a point when the book series appeared just ready, and not continuing, and when the quality seems to have gone too poor, like me stupid, sleepy like a sleepwalker, and the new ideas kind of forgetting the need for basic info or common sense. And when it feels that nice glimpses to school learning is what the adults would long for, since they have experience of life to back it up, so insyead of flat terms they woukd see glimpses of diffetent areas of lufe in a nice rational light that aims at being good for living. Like for example a page or two of some birds or plants, or some view of history. Maybe backed up by tourist guidebooks, advertisements of local shoos somewhere interesting for them to travel in, etc.
I am also referring too much to my old texts, so the views is like saying "just the same as there, oh where was it". So it just destroys quality. It woukd work much better if someone else would find those texts in the same subject and recommend according to common sense to the readers who are knterested in such. So it seems that the subject would better continue by others in common sense like school educated ways, in ways that are nice and good to have kn the world. "
In tge northest edges of inhabited land there are areas where some people, for example raindeer herders spend daily at least some time outdoors, maybe the nomads even a lot. So it can be said that some people can luve there in that climate. On the other hand it seems that in Alaska even Swedish weather skills are not enough and one is kind of catching cold worse and worse, I guess against expectations, which may relate to not being able to lean on trees and the wild nature in living the weathers and the seasons of the year, the nature's view on a good way of life there. And a person catching cold as if in a changed too thin coat, maybe relates to it being easier to learn from such a video than if the nature there somehow just does not feel ok for human lufe there. In the Finnish Lappland there is said to be a railroad between Finland and Sweden somewhere quite north and I read from somewhere that some mine carriage teain had fallen from the tracks there, yet it had been unrepaired for over a month in the middle of summer, so it sounnded like an impossible place for northern milutary service men too to work there. But I have a vague memory of someone having said years ago that if it were war time and people shooting around, there would not be such a problem in repair work, since the level of toughness is that big. As I have watched some videos related to Alaska, there seems to be lots of unnecessary sounding myrders there for the same reason: the nature somehow not good enough for human life, and so half the reason is that one needs to know beforehand of the danger of death being huge there. I also have an impression that Alaskans have the tendency to fight also in Finnish Lappland where it is possible for many to luve in normal way, many like ourdoors holudays there, even tjough some, especially sone tourists, may spend almist all time indoors. So I also have the impression as if read or geard from somewhere an Alaskan helicopter flying aroubd Korvatunturi and shooting, as if trying to get the Christmas work function well, but as far as I know that has not been needed there at all. In Sweden Lapplsnd is somewhat more southern. And my imoression of Canada is it being like eskimo land, eskimos having a lush summer, while others do not see it so.
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As far as I understand, Santa Claus Lands are meant to be so north that the culture in questions understands that one ought to aim at a very good quality there. So for the eskimos it maybe could be the North Pole, but for others in North America, the Town of Santa Claus in Indiana, at tge southern side of the three great lakes in north-eastern USA, sound more right in the climate leaving it possible for skilled wise adults to reach for their very best. In Finland, Korvatunturi has maybe been such for those who spend almost daily some time outdoors in the Finnish Lappland, but at least for me influencies from Lappland make me fall ill, so that is much too northern for me. Eastern Finland seems better suited for high quality, for example Savonlinna and somewhat southwards from there. While I wonder if most foreigners would feel Estonia to be such with their emphazis on literature, bakery, etc. And so the good quality outskirts of livable area vary from culture to culture.
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If in the very north where there still is some trees, one cannot lean on tge atmospheric wisdom of the trees there, since such leaning is somewhat like in 5C to 25C, and there tge temperatures mostly are only a little bit above zero or even much freezing. So one should use one's sense of sight, maybe like -1C to -25C or I do not know. But anyway, since one cannot lesn on the trees, can one observe the landscape as a whole, paying attention to the atmosphere tones of the snow in slight small hills, etc, is there any charm, any image in mind of some old times' skilled skiiers wandering there, any idea of such ways of wandering, their charm and wisdom of lufe, their routes propably leaving more room for the trees, of their ways of living, ways of wandering in different weathers, what is their wisdom, what are their values which increase skills, how is their society kept up and living environment livable, especially from generation to generation.
I think that making indoors nice matters a lot, like in the spring advices near the poem at my text about the seasons, and like in my book "Magnifient Views: and nice to live in", which both you can find at MiracleLikeNature.BlogSpot.com .
In cold climates some warm, surely warm enough and nicely kept blankets, and good woolen socks available in sight, for example folded leisurely on a free chair, kind of keep one's emotional life softer also in the not-at-all so cold times. I guess there may be some more southern influencies via nedia, social contacts, maybe even some unseen hiding animals moved here from the warmer climates.
I think that square forms may make it more difficult to listen to feelings and atmospheres sensitively all the time so that one notices well and detailedly what each one needs, what is the weather, how big was the strain from life today or lately, and what food would so be good, is one's posture varying according to life, like tiredness, observatiobs, motivation type, etc, or too rigid to notice. When I was in school age, we had indoors by the door a walking stick like piece of quite slender tree trunk, without bark but as if for a handle the bark left to the upper end. It was somewhat curving (several small curves) and nice, natural, quite light, and we used it for keeping the door open when ventilating downstairs, and in the Christmas we used it as Santa Claus' walking stick "Are there any well behaving children here?"
23th of May 2024 In comparison around June here in southern Finland :
In the end of May, when one first times ooens the outdoor to the garden so that there are full leaves, maybe flowers, maybe also flowering bushes and fliwering trees, etc, really summee, and birdsong, and one is stopoed at the wooden stairs to think that this flourishing is our summer, what our summer is like.
Midsummer with children playing around, the amount of light and twilight slowly changing and obe thinkibg of this fine place to live in also in the context of the seasons of the whole year, and what wisdom of life wehave in this climate.
Still it is somewhat stiff and scarce like more northern areas often are, but we don't quite know why, since mist here do not feel well in hot weather and when there comes some influence from more southern or tropical ways of living, we just feel ill and unhappy from it and don't know why the nature there would be any wiser or lives at all as happy as here where weathers demand wisdom year around. Sometimes I wonder would a more slimperson in a warm climate anyway learn wisdom of life from the varying weathers, since one experiences them more strongly and needs to take them into account in clothes, rythms of life, etc. But often lazying which is typical in hot, brings a tendency to eat oneself more fat.
Lately I have wondered if the heat regulatiob advice at https://learntalents2.blogspot.com/2024/04/heat-regulation-etc-skills-advice-for.html which can be used also for cooling, coulg bring a similar wider variation in ways of living the weathers, times of the day and things done, in much warmer climates. I do not know so much about cooling, but it seems that the body can cool itself too, using the same advice. A cooling state of mind is maybe a slight fear like (or doubt like consideration) "ouch, could that be that so?" (without lising any of one's emotional balancedness) (so kind of more like pretending fear than actually feeling really in a danger, maybe like in a discussion saying as a thinking aid "well, that would be horrible, do you really think so?") kind of moving emotionally away from next to some central, in shape bone like parts of the torso or limbs, kind of an emotional flattenibg there. Or copying from the Arabs some image of what ice tea like wind cause inside the limbs.
Of the for most much too northern trees in Alaska and Canada, maybe one can look at them in the summer when it is above 0C and there is no snow, somewhat like North European trees when it is -10C or -20C or colder, with at least 10cm or more snow on the ground, maybe the upmost layer powder like quite new snow. Maybe one could understand such if one considered the area eskimo country, eskimos having come from more northern areas where it is so cold and snowy that it is jyst natural to only look at trees, without so atmospherically copying from them as if sharing same ways of living doing etc.
Maybe those liking Alaska, would like for a similar reason the life skills that seem to be a part of basic school teachers' education.
If one is wandering somewhere with a good spirit, wishing well for life, if one has healthy kind of wisdom of life, it can help the area around flourish. And if one feels too exhausted or physically drained to care for such, one should wish well to small insects etc that have come to the surface of one's feet, hands, to obe's clothes etc, since those may be the ones most exhausted. See ASorcerer.BlogSpot.com , wishing well in a landscape is often relieving for life there, since it makes possible to respect the wishes of the wild animals and plants living there, and so it is easier to wander there respecting the life of the nature living wisely in the seasons of the whole yeaf.
Obs. In the text hot means warm summer days and cool means unusually cool summer days, for example rainy days. So it is compared to what you are adjusted to and what is the local view of ordinary summer weathers.
29th of May 2024 I would guess that people wanting to move to some new country or climate, loik kind of as if the place were magnifient, somewhat like a hotel and maybe having eaten almist too heavily but good food. Whike the place where they lived as a child and a teen, makes them feel squeezed, somewhat uneasy, having several opinions kind of respecting some wisdom of it but not being convinced about it being a good choice for themselves of where to move to.
And people moving to cooler countries would look like cooling and school like finding their way. While people moving to tropics would look like liking such heat and even ways, more centered on social life, encounters, etc. People wanting to move to tundra or the like where many spend the winter indoors, seem to long for the feeling of cold and ice, snow etc, and mention school instead of wisdom, and be more knclined to social talking and keeping company indoors, and like the idea of even heat and even ways like tropics. So it often is a mixture of tundra and tropics, not like the 4 seasons usually in not so cold. One moving from tundra to warmer would have skills for staying warm, maybe a tendency to be somewhat fat and always use muscles in a not-so-leisurely style. And they would be wondering, how south they xan travel, maybe go to colder climate for tge summer, and they too kind of dreaming of tropics or so warm places without going so far.
One can be tuned to only one kind of clinate at a time. So if one tunes oneself to the very north, one does not learn weather skills for very different climates. But if one is convinced that one is not returnibg to visit such places, say for a year or two at least, so one can tune to the climates and cultures where one wants to live, and so one can also naturally adopt the local weather related ways of living, values, rythms of life, ways of doibg and skills, etc. If one knows well some climate, it ought to be possible to return to it based on one's old skills even if one is not tuned to it all the time, but I do not see any point in returning if the place is not one's own likibg of where to live, what good sides to seek.
Some people, is it Chinese or China oriented, have an even perspective that guides them widely in the world like a civiliced perspective that yet does not make them feel fully happy. It is maybe a civiluced perspective which allows peoole originally from the tropics travel around and live very freely even if the climate is of the 4 seasons. But to feel happy and to learn to understand wisdom, they should vary their ways of living and ways of doing so that the sports like atmosphere of moving etc naturally suit the present season.
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6th of June 2024 Some video's picture of a Chinese yard or opening between traditional houses, paved with stones, without any greenery, and in the open space Chinese kungfu practice or the like, made me ponder as if someone had said to me, that how north can it be if there are no plants in sight, is it possible in the very north if they just keep it clean from snow, and then they xan have a picture of it fof people to ponder, if they just want to live there and feel well in so cold. Is it so that the traditional Chinese house miljos are quite many what would maybe look nice with piles of snow, even if there would be no trees in sight? And the kind of clumsy movements typical for some Chinese, would those be good for kungfu on slippery surface?
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11th of June 2024 Moving from a cold climate to tropics should go via warmest climates of the four seasons, since those teach skills for changing climate to warm. If one instead aims straight to tropics, the climate difference may be too big, if the cultural influencies from the tropics say that only one option can be the best for any single person.
Similarly, if some want to change to the tundra or so where some sit indoors most of the year, such a forefigure does not teach skills of changing climate. So one ought to copy from those cultures of the four seasons where people spend some time outdoors daily througout the year, and where the winter coldest is maybe -10C, and so manage to learn the climate change. ??
12th of June 2024 The snow covers melting to puddles and snow, and similarly the other times of the year, compare with the rest of the four seasons and get their beauty and charm from it, the person looking at the landscape thinking that this is the charm of life this far north, but so living there demands in some way very much that one would like just that cold and scarce seasons, such life in one's heart, and so one's kids etc maybe cannot bear it. Each one should live in a climate that one likes, qhich is as flourishing and warm as one needs and enjoys all the year.
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27th of April 2024 Learned from changing weathers demanding individual judgement to stay alive, like the melting of the ice cover of a lake in the spring time.
16th of April 2024 First, follow civiliced values with good quality. Then have some independency, the right to refuse, so as to have some personal fracturelessness and healthy kibd of wisdom in lufe choices. Pay attention to weather like situatiobs: does the thing seem good, wished for in tge world, and for you right now, and for others, kibd of taking the ibfo of feelibgs into accoubt well, since often drawbacks are difficult to put to words, since those are often in another perspective or side or between perspectives, but kind of felt atmospheric fracturelessness in how one is in a landscape may help one notice such and take them wusely into account.
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If one touches by one's clean bare hand, a sunny spot where the snow is melting, or the ground at a melted spot, or some untouched green leaf, one can get so a feel of a good spirit with which to live such a time of the year.
My text about the four seasons in southern or eastern Finland, see https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2014/11/living-with-seasons.html , includes also this advice. I think that it is good to know a few possible alternatives about how to live, even if those are entirely different, so one can better find vocabulary to how one oneself wants to live. Without such forefigure like kniwledge as comparison points one is much more at loss about life skills, kind of without a map. So one needs local forefigures, honest enough and of varied kinds instead of all study pals or the like.
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I feel that on a lake shore one ought to at least sometimes squat (kneel to / almost to the ground), maybe try by one's bare hand quicly the feel of the water of the lake, and quietly look at the landscape, letting the atmosphere of the nature be undisturbed, both near and in the wider environment, think of the atmosphere, weathers, nature's lufe there and the seasons there, and think that obe's forefathers maybe lived such a life or somebody's forefathers visited there long time ago, or at least the forefathers or forefigures of the wild animals in the landscape lived there already a long time ago. And so try to see how to oneself live in that landscape for a wvile, wandering along some route a quite short distance from the shore, looking at the landscape around, feeling it's atmosphere, trying to find some of it's typical sense of beauty, remembering the seasons there too.
My own home as an adult has sometimes had a honey like atmosphere. I value animals and nature, admire bees, and I tend to think that it is good to leave things at home in a way that is good for life, but sincere enough so as to know where one needs to learn better ways of living. I value wisdom of life a lot and consider good ways of doing important. I think strongly that wishing well in the world and being fair in one's life are important values to follow in practice, always in everything.
Life in the cold climates is tough for plants and animals, so I feel that the wild animals and plants would flourish better if one showed respect for their task to live the four seasons there, for the skills and virtues it demands too, and kind of let the nature's atmosphere, beauty be a guide of how to behave there, leave the nature and it's atmospheric beauty and the wisdom of how to live in such a climate fractureless, not disturbed by humans.
At some time in Savonlinna in eastern Finland I wondered how the small soft fly like insects could survive the winter outdoors, I came to think that maybe trees have some spiritual connectiln with some other trees of the same species, kind of safeguarding it's own kind of wisdom, even as if magic of trees living a life typical to tgat species. Is there some such view of the trees living in the very north too? There may be tough life for the trees and plants and animals dying of too harsh life. When my poodle and earluer my Japanese spitz died, I afterwards felt it good to remember them polutely at a distance, wishing well, like sending a postcard greeting sometimes but mostly quite seldom, and so I felt the dogs having continued to some other kind of lufe elsewhere, but anyway the sorrow has been easier so. And I feel that many northern living beings with weather skills need such independency, even though some might talk of death. I feel that respect and good will from a distance are often needed where there are high skills and good will wisely in the world.
So wise, with healthy kind of common sense and wisdom of life according to feelings, healthy agws old ways of living that those are miracle healing, might be needed where lufe is tough. At least such wishing well and cultivating wisdom and following beautiful healthy kind of values in the world, are needed in so north. My view of healing ought to be at CuringGuesses.BlogSpot.com and many of my books at MiracleLikeNature.BlogSpot.com .
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If one thinks of the bare stony tops of mountains etc, such seem to correspond to the lives of many who are the most skilled in something, so that others rarely produce good enough quality in such matters, except when one sets the required skill level much lower. So politicians and other high leaders would be at the height of flourishing well running lufe, skilled enough to understand how to get such to work well, and ordknary enough in their choices so that the masses can folliw them without any bug problems.
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It came to my mind the song "Hi/I wish you health forest, hi mountain, hi you minor leader of a forest. Here is your son, fine/courageous, young. He steps to sight full of strenght, like the strict wind of Lapland's hills. * I want to ve a son of the forest, a hero of the in a rocky lake shore like way beautiful thick needle tree forest. In the fields of the forest god Tapio (kind of meaning one gaining skills and strenght from competing honestly and fairly with the forest's animals and plants skill level, even though one always loses to it), I wrestle? with a bear, and the world will be forgotten...." which I think suits thinking of forest of thick needle trees of kind if triangular arrow head like shape. This video has pictures of Finnish forests and lakes. The difference to Canada or Alaska is tgat there the ways seem to be good to copy from the view of the nature landscape with forests of how to live all the year, it's weathers, weather skills and be fascinated by their charm especially. While in Finland a rational wise person truly tries oneself thinking wisely but seeks to rise to the level of the forefigures kn nature teaching high skills, happiness and wise ways of living the four seasons and wisdom in the world.
18th of June 2024 I have the impression that each country or climate has a typical style or charm of the ways of living and doing that is maybe a somewhat average weather like, like Central Europe, at least France and Germany, mayba has middle autumn (October?) rain like heat regulation tactics. And Finland maybe has a sight oriented cautious but varied and enjoyably with the wide landscape like way of living like walking in -1C (with slight new snow partly covering the ground, water puddles frozen on the surface, but some pavement in sight too, and some trees, bushes, geasses etc around but wondering how will they handle the snow and cold). And do Alaska and Canada have a view of -20C in how to look at the nature, how much winter weather skills to have always along etc?
I used to have a white Japanese spitz dog called Fuji-San Yummy Yukon, but I did not learn anything about Yukon from him. My dog said that Yukon is too much in the north, so no-one can live there. But my dog said that he had tried to eat good food and quite much, since he felt that those who are happy there need such a hint from him. He did not usually eat overly much, but he was kind of jolly somewhat fat person, a likable character, so he might eat a little bit over normal meal or sometimes several smaller or normal meals a day, depending on if the food was good, like he sometimes ate two fried sausages, or if he was in need for strenghtening because of having met on some spiritual side someone who needed healing abd who had brought ibfluencies from bad luck, even though he did get extra meal if he asked for such, since so strenous to be a miracle healer on some spiritual connection of animals. But as a puppy he ate really lot, stealing other puppies' plates. As I watched yesterday some video of Alaskan highway (in the summer time), the travellers seemed to eat hamburgers aimed at people going to an ice desert like the polar ice. I felt they woukd have needed some scratched sallad too like men are said to mix with sauge, or sour cabbage plus some quite light coloured thick ordinary sauce.
19th of June 2024 The very northmost trees in North America may be what many people compare to space travel. But that relates to them living at the edge of the area where such living beings can stay alive, so it is lije the edge of a desert. To think of such one ought to understand the climate skills of surviving in such a climate, so it works out only for the people having weather skills for the cold or quite cold clinates of the four seasons. For those having climate skills primarily in the tropics, it would make better sense to compare space travel to the edge of some other kibd of desert in ghe tropics. The point seems to be to see that it is hard and that one must with one's own skills, valyes, dedicatiln etc care for the things needed for living there. So one ought to have lots of skills. But such border areas often do not teach skills so much, are not anything to lean on, except maybe for compassion, kind of give an idea of the situatiln. For space travel trees and byshes at or near space travel oriented places are teaching ways of livibg? / fascination for space travel, if one can such from them learn, and are something an astronaut maybe coukd lean on. Similarly famous ports may have bushes showing some skills, ways of living or the like for sea travellers. But anyway the very northern areas can ve seen socially or in the thoughts of sone or on sone occult side mostly connected with space travel, and one must enter some other area of lufe, maybe not so widely thought of, to jyst live there, to travel to see how the arctic nature bears the seasons, the beauty of the snowy landscape.
If someone wants to change to eskimo like life, moving to live in Canada seems the only possible option toward it, especially if it otherwise has taken years without advancing and without one giving up dreaming of such life.
At least in Finland many seem to say they choose to be both African and eskimos, and neither option suits Finnish climate and culture. Finland is not a route for changing climate or culture, if one does not like Finnish culture and climate, since the Finnish climate and culture are kind of complex and demanding, and need wisdom of life which includes following feelings in common sense like ways. But countries which have both very cold climates of the four seasons and continue all the way to almost tropics could maybe offer such gradual routes for changing climate.
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Is it a week ago, I saw some picture of workers needed for a Santa Claus land in Alaska. It was a nice looking picture but the people in it resembled my relatives living in or having for merli lived in Lappeenranta in Finland. I was left wondering, is usa often like what such attemots to produce some nice thing in another country, bring in the longer run? The Finnish view is often based on objective rationality at a very general level. It is the kind of rationality taught in school in natural sciences: one knows very little but it is on a very general level and carries well if one follows it objectively snd folliwing civiliced values fully and having healthy common sense and healthy wisdom of life accordibg to feelings. So that is the perspective of applyibg such. Like healthy ways of livibg, it can vary from person to oerson, but the idea of folliwing good natural basic parts of natural life at least a little bit each day, and to folliw the main ideas in vasic civiliced wisdom, does help to make life and health better, even if it is a different version.
23th of June 2024 Similarly many foreigners and many foreign cultures, maybe even all other cultures look less healthy in spirit than what the traditional Finnish speaking Finnish culture is. The Finnish speaking Fknnish vulture ought to spread largely via conversations and reading and writing. Mostly if there is some unhealthy appearing guideline in some foreign culture, the peopke there should compare it with the ages old fully healthy ways of living, ghe ideal in the biological sense. And so one would know to what one should vorrect it in the ideal dituation, and maybe ve able to correct some things toward right already now, and be able to invest in some courses that ought to bring needed skilks or whatever. So the basic ideas ought not be too fifficult to vommunicate and understand. But the foreigners often have some social reasons for not investing in such answers. But due to the climate fifferencies etc, one cannot usually copy such from Finns either. Anyway the ideal tgeoretical solutions pught to have so many good sides, that maybe via valuing wisdom of life thst is nice from the poi t of feelings and good for the wide world in tge lobg run, maybe so these ideals could make room for better life.
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28.6.2024 Jotenkin tuli mieleen Kiinaa ajatellen, että jos kokeilisivat Alaskan tms kovin pohjoisia kuusia kiinalaiseen puistoon, niin ne vaatisivat seurakseen pihlajan tai pihlajia, puumaisesti kasvavan ruusun ja orapihlajan, on vaikutelmani, mutta se on kai kovin kiinalaisvaikutteinen. Ja ehkä omenapuu.
Alaskassa tai Kanadassa voisi kokeilla haapaa ja pihlajaa. Kai niin kuin on tunnelma ouiden kasvun kannalta hyvä ja sopuisa.
Savonlinnassa asuessani tuli Nätkin kaupasta korttelin verran pohjoiseen kssvavasta siperianlehtikuusesta, joka tuntui olevan pihtakuusen tyyppinen, mieleen, että se on kuin kestäisi pakkasia hyvin, mutta eri tavoin kuin suomalaiset puut, vai onko että vaikutelma vain oli kovin pakkasmainen, vaikkei se niin kovaa talvea kestänyt. Mutta moni suomalainen ei pidä viehättävänä, että lehtikuusi pudottaa neulasensa syksyllä, ja niin niitä ei niin paljoa istuteta, etenkin kun siperianlehtikuusi tms on jotenkin kulttuurilluselta tunnelmaltaan ihan eri oloinen kuin täkäläiset puut. Nätkillä oli vanhan hienon näköisiä mäntyjä aika monta. Ja oli lehtipuita, etenkin metsiköiden reunoilla, ja oli myös isoja lehtipuita, nekin kasvoivat hyvin, esim keskustan hopeapajut ja tavallisista puulajeista mm koivut.
Mänty näyttää jotenkin vankalta ja kestävältä puulta, joten ihmetyttää, jollei se pärjää pohjoisessa, mutta onko niin, ettei siellä sitten voi niin suoraviivaisesti elellä? Jos täytyy llla kuin tuuli vain kävisi läpi, niin olisiko orapihlajamainen pensas sopiva? Pihlajan luulisi sopivan, etenkin purojen varsilla, asuintalojen pihapiirin seinustoilla jne. Luulisi matalan vähän kuin pensastavan männyn pärjäävän, vähän kuin männynkäpykeskeinen koristepuu, esim. joulupukkiin liittyvissä paikoissa tai joulupukinmaassa. Eikö kaupankaan luona, kaupan seinustalla pärjää alppiruusu, senhän voi kai talveksi hangen alle peittää. Ja varvikkoa olisi hyvä olla: kanerva, puolukka ja suoheinät yms., eden neliömetrin koristeplänttinä jossakin kaupungissa. Voiko pihtakuusi, paju ja pihlaja olla jossain yhdistelmänä? Luulisi että puiden yhteensopivuus paikan ja paikkakunnan hemgem kanssa olisi olennAista.
Lapissa pihapiirissä olisi pihlaja, kauempana tunturikoivua, jossakin kumpareella kenties pensasmaisen korkuista haapaa, ja kauempana ehkä poroja tai metsäpeuroja varten orapihlajia tms?
30th of June 2024 I got from my white Japanese spitz dog Vaapukka, i.e. Fuji-San Yummy Yukon, which died a little bit over 5 years ago, the impression that good food to Yukon in Canada would be baked chicken, somewhat like kanaviillokki, but in bigger pieces and in more natural way like, kananrintaa, and with it some simikar looking sauce, but more like fruits and maybe some butter in it like feels good, and maybe squeezed pitatoes, perunamuussia, with it plus some fresh sallad lije is cudtomary in restaurants, for example lingonberries in sallad of small pieces of fresh cabbage?, kaaliraaste, olusiko punakaali tms. Kind of eating so well that one feels somewhat fat and satisfied with such meals, but it depending on finding the right incredients, like maybe right teas etc, kind of like fun sports maybe help to sense what is well and what not.
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It seems that not feeling well in the summer, when living very north, often gets replaced by feeling well and enjoying the summer, if one thinks of the sommer in connection with all the seasons that far north, and thinks that it is fine and great to live just in this climate, whose expression this summer too is. But so , if one would want more some other kind of climate, value such seasons of the year, such a climate greatly, one should move to live there instead.
6th of July 2024 I made today the blog https://winelikefascination.blogspot.com of links to my texts and blogs. Later I came to think if some people in tundra or so drink too much alcohol in the summer. That is not the idea. In the summer one should quite often in the evening go to sauna in some old wooden sauna, of which one learns climate skills and ways of living for the summer too. The ways of living the different seasons and weathers are marked differently, for example summer might connect to sitting long in the sauna's porch (dressed in a big towel) to get cool. And go fishing, setting nets, on aa rowing boat to the quietened lake. And in the daytime wander somewhat further from the houses to get some touch with traditional ways of living.
8th of July 2024 Of the name Dwenda, I am good at theoretical thinking, so I suggested a name connected with wise ways of thinking, D, which appear to fit together with the nature, in questions of northmost America the trees there, and a kind of wider fascinating spgere of lufe and of undwrstanding and skills with a tale like charm of the northern forests, snow, nature and the seasons there, like what is the charm of some books there and my view of how to learn new skills, talents and a way of lufe suited to an area that one would like to live in and whose seasons, weathers, type of nature imoressions and their atmospgwre sensstions, etc one is fascinated by. And my imoression about traditional ways of life in the quite north, and of the ways of living of wildlife in the north. But these wete jyst imordssions of a certain style, certain ways of choosing what is comfortable for people, animsls groups, etc motivated in a certain way, what is a fruotful groubd to build upon together with civiluced wisdom and especially civiluced valyes. And the ibflyencies from the arctic Santa Claus Kand in the North-West Russia at Novaja Zemlja made it possible to choose jyst such that it would be like a nice present or nice presents for the ibdkviduals but with good wuse effects in the world and posdible in practice, for e ample of a right size class in each thing. Or that was the aim.
(8.5.2023 The picture of the video are from a cold climare of four seasons, summertime pictures. The paradise theory says that one ought to have climate skills for the climate that one is in. )
The video has no sound. "Gaia story" by khtervola
After the white flowers in the beginning at least most of the outdoor pictures are from our summer cottage in eastern Finland, but I haven't been there for over ten years. People are enthusiasts of different things, via them they rise higher, but not via anything that others happen to like.
It is important to choose where one lives so that that climate supports just those characteristics and values which one wants to have endlessly without needing to compensate them away and without the features of other climates. This Christmas gnome text's skills are meant to be possible all over the world, so they do not demand a cold climate, but many of them get support from a civiliced society.
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10th of July 2024 The pictyres and videos of Canada that I have seen in the internet, first kind of impress that are they objectively thinking, wintery nature views and good quality books valuing people, but after seeing a few of them one starts to wonder where is the needed variatiln in ways of doing? There does not seem tl be any. The explanation seems to be ghat they are interested in surviving the winter cold, especially the coldest winter, and nothibg much else of the weathers of the year, except that thete ought to be snow. And that many of them do not go outdoors in the winter at all or almost not at all. But in any case they could be leisurely intetested in all kinds fascinating beautiful moods and ways of walking in the qarmer weathers -10C and warmer, kind of getting a catch of the varied weather skills of the warmer climates and the enjoyment of those. Likewise variations in ways of walking indoors, like more sturdily at some poknt and more music lije some other, etc, maybe lustening to the radio, is generally good for basic life skills and wisdom of life. I think that it is often also good to do somethibg in a hurry, like a parent commanding that lift that screwdriver to me now, or in a hurry to get somewhere in time and get some chores ready before that, so that one pays attentiln to good ways of doing and has variation in rythms and things done, and so also in ways of doing. And so one gain all kinds of basic wisdom of life connected with gesture language. And so I cannot understand why the Canadians in the pictures look like being without any such variations in their ways of doing, as if they were animations?
Yesterday I saw in the internet some pictures of utter beauty of nature, and of some having caught a glimpse of high skills, so I think that the name Dwenda seems to work out ok, but it would be good for those learning anew fascinating climate, it's traditional culture with ways of living and wisdom of life which they like and value a especially much
I wonder if in the old times there were not much foreigners, people lived countryside and tge areas were largely culturally quite homigenous, the ways of living wise, allowing individual variation, and life where the old times' wisdom was followed, was often enjoyable in a natural healthy way. Then there came more foreign influencies and most people lived in town. Was it then so that if someone was still inclined toward the old tines' wusdom, there was not much of such left, and after that came the lies: actors like Tauno Palo ("Stupid Fire" songs, the charm of old times countryside) and Ansa Ikonen ("Trap Forever" forest, the ages old nature of living beings?) with the help of banks/money,
" The wals of a wanderer
In castles the weddings of noblemen? are spent,
The bride has a crowned head
One is comforted by wine and champagne
But the heart may be as cold as ice.
That is why I prefer dancing on the sand road
when the humming of the forests' trees sings.
Come, come to dance with me,
come with me my girl, Ohoi!
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wrong kinds of persons but some of the old times miljo and way of life remaining. If one wants back from that, it does not go by returning to the remainibg old chores etc, since the others already noticed tgat they had won this way and that way. But if there was something selling well, like people longing for songs, many of those living in towns longing for free time recreation in nature, people wanting nice jobs that they like, wanting good balanced varied healthy kind of lufe with civiliced wusdom, etc, then for those things, together with the large groups, thete was space for, a demand, and so there are songs in the radio, some green areas and lots of smaller amounts of trees, grasses, flowers, gardens, etc, in towns. And by the edges of towns there are kept horses for riding hobbies, old wooden houses kept for meetings and recreation, etc.
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( My father told me when I was a child, that his mother, who had died years before I was born, and who had had the first name Anna and had preferred to be called by the nickname Ansa, she had told of traps, that traps are dangerous and must be opened from the outside like a spiral, with enough safety precautions all the time. If I remember right, she said that good quality objective thinking is one thing helping in opening traps. If I remember right, good quality social relations can help too, but deception can lead to a trap and further inside. But I was mentioned objective thinking since that was my strenght. I was not interested in making traps, and social relations were not my strong side.
I guess people say that another way to remove a trap is from the center, by having a good social relationship that sets things right, but in my opinion such is often deception, a typical trap. But I guess that if all would have things in life so well that no traps would be needed or wanted, that could correct things, but in my experience such seems unlikely. But one can aim at having basic things in life well in the society and in the world, and knowing that some like the idea of traps etc, so such exist too. )
Traps brought to my mind this subject from yesterday:
" "Grave song
Restless is the river and waves roll, sea alone is great and sea lovely. Sleep river in the arms of the sea.
Wind wanders and leaf flies. Happy the one who was in time in a valley. Sleep leaf in the arms of the valley.
When the day rises, the star fades away. One does not fade away for forever, the one who left from life. Sleep star in the arms of the day."
Eino leino (My translation)
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I used to like poems at some point as a child, maybe preteen. I tried to learn to understand how to make such wise poems. Of this poem I think I thought the following:
I thought the idea was to make a poem about death, not about waking. So if someone is in pain or ill or the like, one is when politely at a distance saying it without hurting feelings, restless, and the river too may refer to trouble, and waves to supposed sexual relations going to that direction. If one then is adviced toward something but taken away one's own power in comparison, and adviced also to trust by feelings, then one is likely to disappear to it, be it death or one's own kind of lufe otherwise, anyway disappearing from the former environment.
If someone worries about such, one can say that it is good to let things go in natural ways, so there is less pain and other troubles in the world. In a way one has oneself made the choices in life which make one typical to those areas of life and types, to which one has a liking, choosing such freewillingly always, out of likkng such areas of life. So in a way it is good that one lives just such type of life, even if it may be short or wandering away to other districts.
When the day rises, the star is no longer the brightest but is anyway enjoying what one spoke for, besides such are periodic situations, so good to adapt to each kind of situation, noticing that death is different. And if one is tuned atmospherically to each kind of situation, maybe one knows how to continue to lufe after death. Similarly, old social relations may distance themselves but yet their professions may keep up the society and the world.
As far as I understood, the poem was not made for the deceased, but instead for the somewhat mourning relatives etc who want to understand by thinking for a while what such things like someone's death are like, why and when those happen and how to oneself avoid such in one's own life. "
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In my youth I (and my childhood family and our relatives on my father's side) had the last name Hari, which brought to the mind of most a mixture of both positive and negative at the same time, for example the spikes of roses.
30th of May 2024 Come to think of it, my father had a nice way of skiing in the forests in the winter, resembling some Eino Leino's poems, but I guess such is some traditional wisdom and he had good skills of recreation outdoors in the winter.
"I ski the snow covers leisurely slowly, (just a few steps, then stopping for a moment to look at the landscape, the snowy beauty of trees etc, gliding down a slight hill, a few steps and looking around, maybe changing route,...)
Wind tosses snow.
Mostly it is as if travelling against the wind and not so much like being carried along the wind.
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27th of July 2024 Clme to think of it, my father had also a pleasant way to live with the summer weathers by doing varied chores etc at the summer cottage. Like going for a walk to see if an area of young trees needs some cutting away the too densely growing ones, and looking at some nature phenomena on the way, and if such was hot, come to the summer cottage and go swimming with kids, do some household chores, eate a piece of bread and drink a cup of coffee, maybe read the locsl newspaper's old version a while and go then find somethkng active to do,... While my mom was mostly somehow indoors bound, like remembering some old fashiobed women's way of living, but it was somehow not so happy. If we as cjildren went with her in the summer cottage to pick forest berries, it was like squatting plus as if she had been told tales shen young, and then the directiln was indoors to make pie or just drink the berries with milk. And she tended to get stuck indoors reading and thinkibg of fifferdnt persons, relatives, etc. So as heat rehulatiln it was not varied and there were not enough nagure's shapes, sensations etc, things one can do only when on a summer cottage. Maybe the door should have been more often wide open to ventilate, or with children fetch water from the shore, maybe do chores on the porch.
Poems describe at least usually some well running atmospheric or emotionally motivating sides of life of their writer. So the reader learns something about well running life in general, but typically where the readers oneself has experience of such good sides, and of course does not get the same likings etc as the writer, but instead a different version of such, for example liking a different hobby or a different area of life or reaching for different emphazis on values in social life.
A poet's view is as far as I know, like somebody's who knows the areas of life so well that one can say that this skills work on this area, and it works better with theseemphazies, and so one mentilns something motivating which brings the right perspective for the reader and does not cause bad misunderstandings. One is fond of such life and shares such likibgs with others so that the reader is kind of dragged along to a well working life.
Of nature poems, the atmospheric compares with the atmospheric in reader's experience, so a nature view may compare with the atmospheres of skiing trips in different kinds of winter weathers, or with a glance from an open window to the sea when there is a nice morning atmosphere in the air. Typically tuning to good ways of living the weathefs brings fine-tuning skills that make such observations and life more enjoyable and wise about such ways of living. And for one with a quite alike but different kind of nature and climate, it might be like an atmospheric moment or view of a moment in life, like a sight in a cloud of dust against the sun of two people wamking leisurely hand in hand in the sand, or of autumn wind catching one's coat when coming out and the door slamming unexpectedly loud, tree branches waving in the autumn storm, or life a sight of an insect flying near a flower in a fliwer pot.
23th of June 2024 Thinking of Eino Leino's poems it came to my mind that some build thkngs oriented foreigners maybe have termed such unnecessary nonsense. But poems are wise, tell of healthy wholes of natural life, bringing examples of the major phenomena of life, and make them easier to understand deeply, profoundly, since in the nature environment there are different shapes and colours, ways of living reflected in the different plant and animal species and in their individuals, different skills, lufe spheres, emotional attitudes etc, and those kibd of fractureless compared to ordinary human affair. So it is just somehow easier to find almost vocabukary for thoughrs, wisdom of lufe, etc, much eadier to grow wiser.
I have written about the skills for a Christmas gnome like life, on a very general level, using words like "work" or "school", "free time", "dream job", "chores that one likes", etc. So if one understands the text, there mostly isn't anything personal or atmospheric in the text itself. It is just objective thoughts and theoretical pieces of one's picture of the world. But when one thinks of those kinds of things in one's own life and maybe in the lives of the people that one knows, those are typically strongly experienced things that vary a lot from one individual to another, and propably much more between people of different climates, cultures, towns, etc. So if there is something well working or touching feelings in what you have read in my texts, that is usually your own view and not from my experience. So it ought not come as feedback. It is meant to help you in yourlife, andmy text was just on a general level suited to writing to a global audience of people of different ages etc.
You can read the back cover texts at a link from LearnTalents.BlogSpot.com , and from there you can also buy an ebook which ought to be instantly readable.
On Wednesday 29 May 2024, Kaisa Hannele Tervola <hannele.tervola@gmail.com> wrote:
My book series "Find / Create The Land Of Christmas" ought to be now available as ebooks (23 of 25), so almost the whole series costing a little bit under 30usd plus tax which I guess is 10% , see www.amazon.com/author/khtervola .
With best wishes, Kaisa Hannele Tervola, Espoo, southern Finland, North-East European Union
How to get a better idea of the situation? One ought to ask people who have own exoerience of school. Is there any clear idea of what kind of school was good for life, and what on the other hand was no longer motivating or folliwed, or was opposed. Tens of years ago in my school in Helsinki, it seemed to be so that the five first years of school were ok, but 6th grade and after that even teachers said as their estimate that school did not work like was the idea in having a school, and that something ought to be done to correct the school to much better, or maybe re-estimate how many years of school and find other alternatives, for example studies to a profession that one likes. If many teachers and adults share the same observations, it is easier to improve school.
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I cooy the text here:
"How many years of school
(19.2.2024 Mysocial space to live in does not carry this subject, it just interests others with more social inclination. I ought to stop writing but feel forced to it. The reason seems to me having figured out easy ways to study kind of school taught things. But you should read my numerous earlier texts and not demand anything more from me.)
When I was in school as a child and a teen, the first class was quite interesting and motivating since there were many new things for one's picture of the world and in the first autumn term I learned to read. The second class wasn't so much new things, so it wasn't as motivated and I wondered why there was school without so much new things. The third class got some higher goals from the number 3 being associated with religious wisdom, so it was quite ok and at least at some parts motivating. But on the fourth grade boys wanted engineering lije technical approach a lot and still more and more and it was much too elementary and boring so, without enough wisdom, so I thought such a serious drawback. The fifth year was thought by teachers to be the last thst makes sense to study if one has an ok head and seeks to behave wisely. So that would have been the natyral lenght of such a school. Then still the direction was toward following school taught things, which was the only motivation gor havkng a school.
But in the sixth grade pupils were no longer interested. They started to be teens and school become an engibeering style rigid form in contradiction with thr pupils' own wusdom of life and their possibilitues of choosing their orofessilnal inclinatiln and future lufe as adults. And so as years passed the school become more and mire narrow, with a feeli g of liw quality, and it no longer was wusdom for lufe.
The video of Cher? about tge motger and girls dancing in the kitchen brings to my mind my youth, summer time fracturelessness, the enthusiasm of having nice hobbies, the liked valuable variatilns of tradition, the individual wisdom of lufe of each guiding their lives and showing their possible hobbies, future professions etc and being of a beneficial effect to the luving environment and to tge wude world to give fair room to such, and how the healthy ways of luving and folliwing civiliced values make life feel good.
From the chapter about Christmas preparations in my book series Skills of Christmas gnomes :
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T2. For most tyrning toward Christmas begins in November when the weathers and darkness make one wish for something softening and comforting and for warm clothes, and when one for the first time hears Christmas songs played in the radio or in shops.
T3. I guess that making things nice for Christmas is largely that thibgs and places would be clean and dry, but on a leisurely way, like one who does not always do such chores finds the right nice tune and drowns into making home and clothes nice.
T4. Often things go nicer if one does not do them like a professional, but instead like a quite beginner who in a moment of inspiration manages to make professional quality.
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"An extremely handsome man"
I thought I had stopped writing, but I somehow felt like explaining the social sides of Lea Laven's song "Ei oo, ei tuu" which I felt boys reacted to very badly when I was a child. And something about handsome men too.
1. Lied and acted good will isn't the same as wisdom of life which is good for the society too.
2. If a girl or a woman has different dream job, values, liked places to live in, liked cultures etc than one's parents and the town one lives in, those who are at the right dire tion look handsome but are often of a wrong type for oneself, typically changing from the charming areas of lufe toward the professilns etc that lne wants to distance oneself from. It would help a lot if one could choose a district to live in which fascinates oneself and a nice job.
3. "An extremely handsome man" in a woman's gesture language is usually the woman's own view of one's manly skills, but those are like a sprinter's, a spark of short time interest, instead if the work like exhausted typical to many men. It would be good to choose a spouce with whom one gets well along, a social relation with whom it is good to live, things in life work out well, one is happy in a natural way, both enjoy such life, it is good for skills, wisdom of life, it offers one space to live in, a good living environment, so lne naturally likes it and tends to smile, and that is why it is said that one ought tp choose a beautigul or handsome one, it means one for whom it feels good to live with ypu. It often means someone with similar likings abd wisdom of life but often of a dufferent age or otherwise with different strenghts, instead of getting stuck to forced rigid ways.
4. Finding "an extremely handsome man" connects often with a phenomenom of which Asian philosophy has the saying "When the student is ready, a teacher appears" of which I wrote some piece of advice in my long text about the Skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com . I mean when a person has own skills and wisdom of life and longs for some element to one's life, some area of life added, which sparks and lifts lne high especially in the beginning, maybe lifts high also the effect of the new human relatilnships there, but it works only based on one's own wisdom of life, and not if others force one to lean on the others in questilns of wisdom of life etc, instead of relying on one's own wusdom of life.
Obs. With whom lne wants to live closely together or copy from is typically a personal matter, but in any case one must leave others room to live in, also for childhood family members as they grow up. Room to live in is a question concerning life in the society. It isn't place for childhood competition or social matters.
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A Christmas song "I am not seeking for power or glory" plus some words about power
I added my old video to the middle of this quotation. It is a song from the point of view of thinking large scale profound questions of wisdom of life, and it so helps to create the Christmas time. It is just a beautiful song, not an opinion in a conversation. And it does not agree to give power etc to those who break against such beautiful values.
" D30. 3rd of September 2020 There is a much liked old Finnish Christmas song called En etsi valtaa loistoa, "I am not seeking for power or glory" that tells of the value of things themselves and of wisdom of life instead of grasping only tool like things.
"I am not seeking for power or glory
I am not seeking for power or glory, I am not searching gold either. I beg for heaven's light and peace upon the Earth. It brings Christmas which brings happiness and lifts spirit up to god. Not power nor glory but instead peace upon the earth.
Allow me a peaceful hut and children's Christmas tree. The light of god's words in which my soul gets lighter. Bring to homes, also to small ones now Christmas celebration sweet. Light of god's word and some nobleness of mind.
To the poor and to the rich too comes Christmas lovely. To the darkness of the world bring heaven's light. I want you, I wait for you you master of earth and heaven. To the poor and to the rich bring your sweet Christmas!" (my translation)"
" W7. Often one gets along and gets solid position when one respects the values of the area of life at hand and tries to learn it's skills in a good quality way and cultivate them well in ways that respect that area's values and motivation and what livibg in a society needs for the society to be good to live in, now and in the future.
W8. What people get position from and how they get treated, is from what they do from momentvto moment, which are the values followed in that, which level of skills in each thing done or thought of, and what is the way of being social, and is it fair, honest, responsible, etc.
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Learning skills which give a higher position
W11. "If you want a betterposition, the rule "Live and let others live!" F60. in the Christmas gnome text, followed all the time in everything, with commln sense and lots of wisdom of life, tends to give so lots of freedom as long as one follows the rule with wisdom. It also tends to give a much higher position to decide about things since things usually run smoothly with such wisdom.
If you need extra skills to gain position to influence things, try E11. Easy quick school for animals, M8. Like a hero of old times, and N97. Emperor's power. "
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N97. My first name Kaisa has the association "keisari"= emperor. What i have learned from it, is that an emperor's power isn't for a certain person or position but instead for a certain type of deeds, so in practice for many different kinds of persons and for them per deed and not continually. The person should be responsible, wise and skilled enough, work fairly for the good of the country and of the world.
I copy the advices in learning skills and talents here too.
F60. Oh, how is gnome like life possible socially, how is it possible to get along and to have room for one's own life, for one's own likings? I guess that the answer is the traditional Finnish rule "Live and let others live!". It is essential, so I copy it here:
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Saturday, October 13, 2012
World's best problem solving method (Important to learn all over the world)
The ruleis something like: One is allowed to be selfish in ways positive for happy life but not to disturb the lives of others - except fairly to prevent them from disturbing others unfairly.
I do not know how all-European this traditional Finnish speaking Finnish (saying/)behaviour rule referred by the non-literal words "Live and let others Live!" but it is surely worth copying! It gives a maximal amount of freedom of everyone, completely according to their own likings, at the same time as it gives perfect moral for purely selfish individuals concerned mainly about their own life but who have a holistic rational view of the world and of the society's workings. The rule "Live and let other Live!" means that you can yourself live as freely as you allow others to live in the society - that means the others who follow the rule "Live and let others Live!". If you to some extend disturb people who follow the saying, you own room to affect things and to live in is shrunk on that respect, preventing the harm and making you think that you might want more room and so be motivated to living in harmony. That means that evil is not allowed to affect lives (of anybody else than the evil one oneself) but nice moral things are allowed to affect fully and supported in order to get better life for all! But one does not need to accept some influence because someone else says it is nice, instead there is the need to be moral and the freedom tofollow one's own likings. It is a good rule. Maybe You have it already! Please learn to use it for happy life and a prosperous society, if it is not so widely known...
Observe that this rule is roughly "Room for happy life!" and is akin to justice and caring the world to such that it is good to live in happily. It is not saying that one should not kill anybody. It means that if fair play and the happiness in the society or in the wide world so demands, you are supposed to prevent evil ones (and utterly stupid ones) from harming others unfairly, also if it means war, killing or the like, but of course one must see the situation as a whole, the good and bad sides of each tactic and choose with wisdom.
There is this same rule without any exception in all relationships, including mother-child-relationships, dating (Try for example incompetitors in love, their kids and other responsibilities), friendship, hate, not caring attitude etc. Largely other rules are not needed, except lots of common sense, healthy spirit and a good understanding and at least some good will toward all.
An important application of this rule are the relationships between countries and between groups which may compete fiercely. It is also a good rule to build the society upon.
It often happens with this rule that the problems disappear as if they had vanished to the thin air. Typically some woman (a wise one) or some nice man says "Go and enjoy yourself. Do not be bothered by them. You do not need to disturb them if you go to some other place or to some other people." and so the person in conflict does so and finds so room for him/her to live his/her own life without conflict with the others.
The goal is something like "We live our lives and let them live theirs." But the other side of the rule is how to get it to apply, how to force it upon people who do not follow it. And that is if they break against justice disturbing the lives of others unfairly, their own room to live in is shrunk similarly and they are prevented from harming others unfairly. But where they live ok, they can fairly keep their space to live in. Typically in this the rest of the society caring about that people would follow the rule, is important. Also some wisdom of life makes this work better than too little understanding about quality of life, social relationships and the workings of the society.
If this rule isn't familiar to you and you don't know how to take it into use or even if you want to use it or not, please try it out in your mind: figure out what it is like in each situation and how following it would affect things. It is a very useful rule, somaybe you like it too, it is quite easy when you have first learned it in each type of situation.
If you in some occasion don't feel like yur feelings coming along in letting others have so much room and preferably happiness too, you have propably not applied the rule enough to yourself: so be more selfcentered, think about what your own life need in a situation like this and see if you can arrange freedom and happiness for both yourself and for others, for yourself you need to take care of it and for others just leave room for them and they themselves with their friends arrange for themselves without feeling it being a burden of some kind.
In care professions, like for example medicine, it is important to follow good enough understanding, good enough moral and be honest about what is a lie, a habit or an unsure supposion. But with wider consequencies taken fally into account this rule applies there too: the patients and others cared for should be allowed to decide fully about their need for care and about the decisions in their care: that is their life, their own influence to the world and those in care professions should not mess with it, giving excuses for crimes. It is especially important to let those live freely who are moral and so carry the burden of keeping the world in a good state, for example some parts of the society.
This rule works well for example in the negotiations between different groups. You do not need always say aloud that things are according to this rule. It is enough if your suggestions are such that when other groups check them, they find that those are ok for them, so they can easily agree to support them, and likewise for your own groups too. But on the long run it is good for people to learn the rule, so that their own suggestions are all right for others too.
Following this rule in decisions, courses taken, judgements etc makes police and justice system and government also easy to agree about, but you do not need to refer to this rule, but more likely explain things in terms of law, needs, objective thoughts, common sense, experience, fair play, carrying responsibility, freedom, etc and then when the other person checks whether it is ok for him/her, it is according to this rule and so easy to agree about, and kind of makes it easier to think of these kinds of things if one has good enough understanding, wisdom wisdom of life, healthy spirit, good will and responsibility about the coming generations etc.
Horse running in an arch, a model of free life according to feelings, a horse knit picture
Animals and somehumans too learn this rule easily by comparing people (and animals) to the trees in a park: each one has one's branches sovereign, lives freely according to one's emotions so, but does not mess with the branches of others, isn't allowed to do so. But one can offer available things that people like, like for example a song in the radio, in a radio station which specializes to that type of music so that people can choose according to their likings whether they listent o it or not.
Animals which associate closely with humans, especially pets, ofr example dogs, sometimes ask if there could be a school for animals too. I have written advices about learning common sense like objective thinking and about fitting into the society, so here is my version of a kind of school for animals:
1) Thinking: use a landscape like view that observes structures. Good practise for this is looking at familiar scenes and landscapes with trees and some life in them. Trees and nature make observation ability better and join the sense of sight topgether with the sense of atmospheres, which is also good for thinking. http://quickerlearning.blogspot.com
For teaching this to a dog that is interested in learning it, go outdoors to some peaceful enough place where there are trees but not overly amess. Do not strand face to face by your pet but instead side by sode so that it looks at the same landscape as you, and so you can look at it so that it sees it the same way and then you can walk to a bush, tree, street's side lawn etc like observed firstm, and that's it.
2) Fitting into the society: The advice "Live and let others live!" is good for this. Think of each person and each group sovereign as the trunk and branches of a tree in a park. It does not mess with the branches of other trees and those too leave it alone, to freely and happily live it's own life. Good will toward others is a good advice here. https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2012/10/live-and-let-others-live.html
3) Wisdom of life and healthy ways of living you can partly learn from how tree branmches curve topward light and what is their atmosphere, the mood it seems to refer to and the kind of life, and partly from sport and healthy kind of life on all areas of life.
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There are also some other things that have often come to my mind when thinking of a school for animals, especially for pets and birds, maybe for mice too.
4) About teaching an animal to read there is a video about reading Finnish language at https://villakoirabanjo.blogspot.com/2020/01/opeta-elaimesi-lukemaan-nain.html , but for it one must first understand spoken language, which often goes by associating with humans and paying attention to the situations and tones of voice, and later by remembering also the atmospheres of the spoken language. Finnish language is written like it is pronouced, but there are some differencies between literature's language and the words of spoken language.
5) The square looks of houses etc are a consequence of it being so easy to place two or more parts next to each other tightly and so that one can choose from nay options, what to place so. So one can build shelter from weathers and from dangers and use materials economically. Such houses also offer fiar chances for different types i´of individuals and a possibility for privacy. The square looks of houses are not good for intelligence and quality of life. For them it is good to look at trees outside the window. If life indoors feels tough, do not attach yourself to build things but instead only to the nature outside the window and to outdoors at large.
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M8. 1st of June 2022 I wonder could one be like a hero of old times but in these modern ages if one read kn part 2. the text About Kalevala B38., and in the beginning of this blog about how to learn talents and skills, and maybe the Easy quick school for animals E11., and if one would look at healthy natural ages old ways of living from the point of view of basic theoretical picture of the world like the sciences.
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About kalevala
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"I bought Kalevala as a book to myself and read some of the beginning. In the competition singing of Väinämöinen and Joukahainen I was surprised to notice that Joukahainen did not lack skills so much, but instead Väinämöinen sang him to be things like the glow of the nature, to the marks of great skill in the nature. "Hat from the head of the man he sang to be an erect front edge of a cloud; he sang mittens from his hands to be leaves on the cover of pond's water, from that misty blue to be clouds in the sky, from his belt a fascination of a new wife to be stars scattered in the sky." So I was left to ponder, if I as a girl thought when reading kalevala that that is what can happen with great skill: one loses position, propably via losing communication connection when one no longer speaks the language of men with more soldier like style. That I would take care to not to fall myself into that pitfall. But at the same time I thought that I could nearly reach that high, to that style in achievements. Now I think that it is like having met a bird: with it's song it makes forests beautifult o wander in, green, there is much soldier like wisdom in it's voice. But so, how did I think I could reach so high skill and quality of life, like the reddish glow of the grassas in a forest etc. One would have a healthy way fo living or a healthy touch of one's own which would cure the way of life healthy again, to ages old. In every thing one would see the parts of healthy way of life which are as an idea in it, and so the deed when sees alike as others' deeds would be healthy on one's own and on others too, and so one could continue with healthy psirit from that, each one, whole society, and partly the rest of the world lear from it. ( World is of love (a mechanical model) http://healthilymoral.blogspot.fi/2011/08/world-is-of-love.html ) ( http://finnishskills.blogspot.fi/2015/11/healthy-ways-of-living.html ) One would have skills of one's own, one would have found one's own roads in life, it would be good to be an individual, personality, like oneself and strong, enjoying being an individual. And so human relationships would be in a way clishee like and in a way with a healthy spirit: one would have the strenght to have an opinion, do meaningful things, carried by the values of the society, things with healthy psirit carried by the actions and values of the society which have healthy spirit which would have strenght and content to life. And one could get strenght, skills and integrite with opinions from being soldier like: to defend something, to invest in healthy courses, copying fro little singin birds and fromother strong wild animal persons (http://wildharmony.blogspot.fi/ ). One would be healthily spoirty, doing things at the practical level, with a good understanding achieved via adfmiring the nature and feeling via beautiful values, caring for the world, approaching life with feelings, motivated to the sphere of life and missions of the traditional way of life, with feelings and with a good understanding, reaching parts of the forefigures in nature of their skill level every now and then. (In Finnish http://tunteetjatekemisentapa.blogspot.fi/2016/07/suurista-tunteista.html )
1. To a Dream Job (Like this you find your dream job and learn talents!)
To a Dream Job Written by Kaisa Hannele Tervola, Finland Many of us have different strenghts than what your dream job would need. And the more we admire some professions, the higher demands we often set to ourselves to be allowed something so high. But our own strenghts reflect usually the dreams of our parents, to which we have already gotten introduced so much that we are thoroughly bored, and not what we feel that our own lives have been most lacking, what we most admire and which we would most enjoy our time, which we would most carefully take to our heart and take care of if it were our work. We cannot change to be copies of our parents, so better for us to travel to the unknown toward our own dreams! Choosing a profession for oneself starts with finding the right way of living: what is your biggest dream, what would perfect life be like, what is the one and only right choise that is often so far that at most in sleeping dreams and tales we dream of it? Set your goals there, take the first steps to that direction with your full heart and with all your wisdom of life, and life is at once much more worth living. If you try with a full heart, that is a different things from somehow, with half a mind only, quickly on the way to something else, just somehow sloppily, just because of the looks and not the content, done. First the idea is to get experience of trhe area of life that you love. You do not need to be of professional level to start with, instead the main thing is to to via your own most loved roads get to know the things you love with your full heart, even if they were distant dreams. Via travelling your own roads you can use your capacity fully and learn as much as you ever can. When setting your goals according to your own wishes,according to those distant dreams, your deeds do not lack spirit: you are at once talented in something that you love. First you have a fascinating hobby, then you start to achieve things that fascinate you in it, set new goals that you love and work for them enthusiastically. This way you do not get flat and bored from memorizing books, instead you have your own style and music like fascinatuion in what you do, real power and own insight and well trainbed skills as your support in your favourite job, which is like your deepest dreams and not set by the environment you happen to be in, your nonexistent starting leve of skills and your initial lack of talents. So there is nothing stopping you from starting in your favourite job, first maybe as a practising student and across time as a real professional in it! On this road there helps the piice of advice about learning skills in things that you love: How to learn all at the same time - drawing and painting"
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2. How to learn all at the same time - drawing and painting (Like this you learn all kinds of skills!)
Skills are often ways of looking at things: when one cancentrates in the right way to right things and notices enough the right structures/regularities (like for example colours with their tones and with what they get compared with), then skill is born from it already without really practising it - maybe in five minutes, maybe in 20, maybe from two day's relaxed hobby. But the difficulty is to find that right way of looking, being drown enough in it and to know what that skill really demands.
I have been making advices to others about skills that I can well. With the same principles I ought to be able to make advices for myself about skills that I want to learn. Just for fun I tried this theoretical view to the skill of painting: "What if one could learn it all at the same time?!" In principle one could... Except that some time would be needed for learning to conceive motorics of hands, learning how different colours of paints behave, etc things demanding experimenting. But the basic principle is always the same:
Drown in the experience so strongly that you notice clearly the different tones of the things that you want to learn, for example instead of noticing just red and green, you drown into enjoying the colours and their tones with their impressions so sensitively and experiencing them with your whoke being that you notice even small differencies in tones as clearly as those of colours earlier. The strenght of the experience brings to you vocabulary for that: this is a cold atmosphere, that is a warm social one, what the different things are like, ever better and better noticing such things. Like this you learn to take into account those things. Then just do so and your skill is ok in what comes to that side of things.
All the taime when you do so, when you concentrate to a new side of things, all the time keep your old skills along, for you to get at the same time both your old skills and the new ones. That does not mean keeping to a stuck view or stuck ways, istead it means relaxation in a lively non flat way, reaching a new inspiration, not from dreams but from the fascination of life at the level of experience, which is born of relaxation and of new beginnings, of letting go of old. You can keep your ability to notice the things that your skill consists of, even if you would lose it's formal side totally. Each time you learn something new and the spirit of your skill gets more profound, at the same time as your old skills stay fully.
So what would this mean for me as a beginner without painting skills? One should learn to no5tice forms and colours with their tones, atmospheres, states of mind, harmony, balance, rhythms and their encounters, breaks, what gets compared to what, common spirit and it's complex variations,... And to draw and paint them on paper. So one should drown in the world of colours, enjoy forms and structures, give room for feelings and feel how they affect the way one observes things, get more sensitive to observe how atmosphere connects to what one looks at and how, what associations it brings to one's mind, what role things have in the world and how it brings the spirit to things. One should also learn how to move these to paper: I notice a form/structure, I lift it to be a subject of my concentration and my hand draws a line that reflects the structure in my mind. Superfluous lines are important to drop away in this: not writing, not a language of geometrical forms, instead just a feeling and drownig into it draw a line. Likewise the other sides: a clear image in one's mind and drowning into it drawn/painted shape.
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I noticed that I learned painting well and quickly when in addition to this piece of advice I bladdred through a good quality study book of aquarel painting and was left watching some especially fascinating picture in it, trying toconceive how it was so fine, how it had been painted and why it had so good spirit, how the whole so successfull. Then I left the book open at that place for a couple of days or a few and looked at the fascination of the picture every time I was interested ins uch. Then I painted just something that fascinated me (does not need to be the same subject) partly based on my old skills and learning according tyo the previous advice in skill learning new fascinating things and partly based on what I learned by copying from the picture. Like this after painting a few pictures I knew also new skills quite well. As far as I know also this piece of advice suits also learning other skills. A good quality study book offers model of a skilled forefigure, who can with her/his style, way of doing and by the things picked to the book teach professionals kills of that area of life. Like this one learns the practices of the profession, it's skills, it's view to the world and even values and it's typical spirit of doing."
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24th of December 2023 If there appear to be kind of maybe quite horisontal, somehow square lines in the air, which maybe affect atmosphere and what one can do and how llng social influencies last, those may be a way of mice or the like hide their presence. So you ought to tell the possibly present mice etc near by, what is the reason why some social contact's view is erraneous and ought not be followed, like telling it to a child or the like. You could also teach the Easy quick school for animsls E11. to them. It is in the above collection too. It ought to help a lot.
In the Finnish climate of four seasons, it is clear that one cannot live the summer in the same way as winter, since the weathers are so different. One needs to have a liking for tge variatiln of the weathers and seasons to enjoy such life. Typicamly people have a liking of some country's, climate's and type of district's wisdom of life in it's ways of living, and so thry tune toward such, and may forget to or do not want to tune themselves to their present living place's weather skills, cultute, wisdom of life etc. So they would most adapt to and like living in the district whose wisdom of life they admire. So they ought to move there right away. And likewise of family members: each to the climate, country and type of environment that they enjoy are tuned to, which culture's wisdom they value. That way they themselves would be much wiser, natural and happy.
4th of January 2024 Bobby Vee : "I love you more than I can say"
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My own home as an adult has sometimes had a honey like atmosphere. I value animals and nature, admire bees, and I tend to think that it is good to leave things at home in a way that is good for life, but sincere enough so as to know where one needs to learn better ways of living. I value wisdom of life a lot and consider good ways of doing important. I think strongly that wishing well in the world and being fair in one's life are important values to follow in practice, always in everything.
" Women's Day 8th of March in the spring winter isn't actually a celebration. Instead it is a wish to end the winter cold by women's wisdom if they happen to such have with such an effect too. If a child wants tl be a girl, it is for most or all imporant that one could get a child of one's own and carry it in one's stomach. So the child is asked, do you think that you would be able to care for the child in your stomach so well that it does not die but is healthy and grows like a child ought to, and care for the child when it has born but is still quite youbg, say a few years, and care for your own body and needs so well that you have the strenght and wisdom etc for such and things run well for you, your family and friends, for the social group you live in and also the society and world good for life in the future. And so most women and girls learn to care for such yhings somewhat, have some wisdom of lufe anf common sense and think that such are needed. And so if the world is of spirit, Women's Day in ghe quite early spring can help to end the winter cold and bring spring weathers.
I guess such is some general wisdom of how is good to live, suited for all, like healthy ways of living and civiliced wisdom, and taking the environment into account, and wishing well in the world - but even mentioning this causes that many try to convince others of the opposite goals as similarly wise advice in life. But it is like a passer-by of a young person or animal saying/thinking "Gees, good ways of doing and taking the environment into account civilicedly, that's life!". Emotional wisdom of life tells whether one feels well or not, so learning wisdom of life about feelings helps in this a lot, but these are complex subjects including wisdom of life, understanding of good ways of doing, of personal differencies, learning, individuality, society level wisdom and one's picture of the world, etc.
It may be that the characteristics (also physical) of women and men, are results of all the time being about to do chores (men) to make the living environment and the wide world good to live in, or caring for wisdom of life (women) in one's own life, in tge living environment and in the society & the world. Both ought to care for both kinds of goals and have lots of experience of them in practical life, for this to work out in practice.
Does this explain what women and men are like, and why they have the rights and tasks they have? One ought to remember that there is lots of variation between individuals!
Women's view of home is that it is a kind of car depod?, a carage like space for repair of cars, maintenancy, short pauses and for keeping some needed artifacts, a little bit like the working place of a car repairs man but not so full time work and for so many clients. In a home there are likewise needed nutritients etc, like bensin for a car, and oil etc. The spaces are made good for use and the aim is to be in full intellect, in a good mood and otherwuse good for the actions of the day and of the future too, in good healthy ways. So like a garage maybe needs less dust, people often need that things would be good to look at and good to use and good for life, and the variations between people and things done etc easy and natural to take into account, which typically means that there shoukd be a flower pot or other complex natural decoration object near by, for example on a near by window, pleasant to look at.
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If I think of my own life, I have had some strong strenghts, especially objective thinking, healthy ways of living & wisdom of life and civiliced values followed always according to my best ability in each case. But on the other hand I have had weaknesses too, so that I mostly haven't had my wishes respected in social life. Sometimes when it is a work like thing and I have had enough space for my good quality views, it is ok if others with their skills and civiliced values take care of those sides of things done for which their skills, values and quality are good enough.
Similarly in social life I need room to follow my own wisdom of life, while there mostly is no need for me to command others, since I am not somehow socially such. All following the rule "Live and let others live!" is enough. But what most problems come from is people being unfair on purpose, walking over the rights of others since they think life is some social competition instead of a common attempt to live a good life, each one of one's own kind. So someone being stupid or lacking skills usually isn't the problem, if such does not affect too widely. Since there is communication possibility to fix such problems, and usually most understand that all are different, and it is just nice to do things in one's own ways while one's pal chooses some other option, so that one does not need to compete.
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following civiliced values also in all social contacts,taking the values of each into account,Wishing fairly well in the world,noticing that all are not consistent in all what they do,
" All people love music. That means that something like music is a part of the human nature.
Some few know how to compose music. They see or hear the life as music. We ourselves when we dance can see the connection of movement and music and sometimes when listening to music the connection of music and feelings – but the other way than those who compose music. Dance is important: the body is the central part of a human being, via it we live, regardless of how intellectual or spiritual we are. Via the gesture language we express what we feel and communicate with others, via the body we do everything that we do. Our state of mind is reflected to how we keep our body and how we move.
When one is relaxed and understands the connection of the body and mind, one can see the body as music of life: our whole life is reflected in our body, in its gestures, and the body sings as sensations in our senses – as sensations which we can express by voice. The tones of voice express different kinds of states of mind. So each feeling or sensation is like a sound, like music which we can hear. And from the song of life we can choose a partial theme to be communicated by a song: a melody.
The song of life in us is what life is to us. It is in other words what we observe, what we experience. The body just expresses it as music.
The songs of life of other people we can hear if we emphatice completely RELAXEDLY with their body like is usual in sports hobbies. Ordinary music pales from the road of this natural stimulus. The whole living world becomes an enormous panorama of music, the great song of life.
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When we act, we have an emotional motivation for it. That motivation is a melody. And action according to it is dance. This dance appears to be dance in its basic form.
To live! Means to sense, to react and to act in the world, in life! Thus natural music, the song of our life and the natural dance of natural action are at the core of what it means to be human!
" N88. 20th of July 2022 Eino Leino wrote ( my translation) :
"... See, a human feels sorrow and joy
and a human feels and lives.
But a singer wanders and listens
and in her/his ears kanteles play.
Those play, play days
and nights, those echo from far away, so far away.
And a singer wanders and listens
and a singer hears and - sings. "
Life has it's own rythms, like lifting one's glace when one is aware of one's environment, or running a short distance, or how the feel of rainy weather affects how one comes in. Those rythms are kind of like songs, and having started something natural and pleasant in one's everyday lufe one knows how to continue it, kind of saying yes i was singing this song and the other natural refreshibg songs of my daily life. But it is more like lufe singing than any memorized melody.
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" Living fully when inside some work perspective
Find the soul of the work's demands on you & others. That makes you work better and enjoy your work more. It also fits your work together with the rest of your life, with your ideals in how to live.
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" What I learned from an ant as a baby
" , and from seeing ants I had learned how soldier like ways, moral work for the society amd athletic healthy ways of living & an individual living freely according to it's feelings and it's ages old nature produce the same result,"
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15th of May 2024 Now, a day later, the first chapter of this blog post brought to my mind an image as if someone had said that it looks in style like the first text which started me writing about the skills for a Christmas gnome like life in September 2018, see LearnTalents.BlogSpot.com/2018/09 , but that now is the difference that I look exhausted, unable to explain clearly and well anymore, so it is like what is often the situation of grandparents after the children have grown up. "Circle closes." meaning that new readers coming here, could start from the beginning of that first Christmas gnome skills text and so learn the needed skills.
Six of the latest Christmas gnome skills series books are still lacking from the pile. You can find the series at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLS8BWC
