For supporting Christmas gnome or elf like life, follow civiliced values, good quality and healthy wisdom of life

 Generally if something is marked higher up in some hierargy, it means thst in the skills estimated that person, thing or perspective is mire skilled and better for the society and for the world, like a person who has studied well enough more courses in the same subject, or is even of a teacher level in those skills compared to you as pupil, or is even more skilled in such, maybe bedt of the world, and that is typically why you have heard of such a person when interested in learning such skills. Typically there are very many such hierargies, at least one per skill, and if you reach for several skklls or goals at the same time, the situation beclmes more complex, and ending up at you choosing your own life choices based on your own likings, goals, skilks, values, life situation, picture of the world, present social relatilbs, etc, such choices you estimate to be best for you kn those situations, but that no longer is best for the world or for anybody else, since it is a more local matter, benefitting from ckviliced values and good quality, wishing well in the world and being fair, leaving results of values cultivated to thise who cultivate such values. And so at large if somelne cultivates something with a certain quality, as feedback or support, you shoukd cultivate thise values and let them be cultivated by others with good enough quality in conndction with that person, instead of sending some personal liking of yours there. Mije these gnome skilks advices are based ln folliwing civiliced values, not on replacing them by dizzy home life etc.